
Love language #1: Words of affirmation
One way to express love emotionally is to use words to build up. Compliments, encouraging words, or even words of appreciation are powerful, simple statement of affirmation that communicates love.
Encouraging Words
Most of us have more potential than we will ever develop. What holds us back is often courage. Don't be surprised when encourage words are able to encourage a person to develop an interest that he/she already has.
The object of love is not getting what you want but doing something for the well-being of the one you love
Kind Words
Love is kind. We should communicate love verbally using kind words. The manner in which we speak is exceedingly important. Remember, a soft answer turns away anger.
Love doesn't keep a score of wrongs.
Forgiveness is an expression of love. It is not a feeling, it is a commitment.
Humble Words
We should not demand for the things we want the other person to do for us. Love makes requests, not demands. Request creates possibility for an expression of love, whereas a demand suffocates the possibility.
Love language #2: Quality Time
This means by giving someone your undivided attention.
Togetherness
A central aspect of quality time is togetherness, not proximity. When 2 people are sitting on a couch watch TV together is not togetherness, they are just close proximity.
Quality Conversation
Many of us are trained to analyse problems and create solutions, we tend to forget that relationship is not a project to be completed or solve. We need to learn how to listen. At the same time, we can't always listen. Imagine if 2 partners, one always talk and the other always listens. Only the listener will know the other person. But the person who talks a lot does not know much about the other partner. We need to talk it out our feelings/emotion as well.